Deep reflection, thanks.
The picture this brings to mind is a car with the gear in reverse. No matter how intensely the driver focuses ahead the car is bound to go in reverse - a reflection of the state of our subconscious mind, no matter how often we say the right things.
The individuals with a healthy self esteem ensure the gear is set to go forward, having addressed inner conflicts and affirmations reinforce forward movement as they focus ahead and steer in the healthy direction.